A former cruise ship employee has revealed that sometimes, a simple choice in jewellery could actually carry a deeper, more adult-related meaning.In recent years, there’s been a rise in special cruises tailored for the swinging crowd, often referred to as ‘spicy cruises’.This kind of vacation has gained popularity among people in the swinging and polyamorous communities.
While it’s not something everyone talks about openly, those involved in the lifestyle have found ways to share it.
From subtle door decorations to the existence of open ‘playrooms,’ many have also taken the time to clear up common misconceptions around what swinging actually looks like.But it’s not just limited to themed cruises, exclusive islands, or shows like Channel 4’s Open House.People in the polyamorous and swinging community often use small signs or symbols in everyday life to hint at their preferences without saying a word.
It’s one of those things that only makes sense if you’re in the know.
Hidden adult meanings behind certain symbols on cruises explained
Most people already know that pineapples – especially upside-down ones – can carry certain meanings when it comes to swinging.
But there are other symbols too, and not everyone knows what to look out for.
To shed some light on these lesser-known signs, Lucy Southerton, who worked on cruise ships for a decade, has shared what she learned during her time at sea.
She now makes videos about her experiences on YouTube.
The polyamorous lifestyle has become increasingly popular over the past few yearsGetty Stock Images
What does it mean if someone is wearing a black ring?
One clue Lucy mentioned is when someone wears a black ring specifically on their right hand.
“One other that I’ve heard is there’s a black ring on your right hand,” she said.
A black ring, worn on the right hand, is one of the lesser known symbolsGetty Stock Images
Lucy isn’t the only one who’s brought up the possible meaning behind wearing a black ring. The idea has been talked about in various Reddit threads and even on the polyamory-focused podcast, Life on the Swingset, where the black ring on the right hand is often linked to non-monogamous relationships.That said, Lucy also pointed out that not everyone wearing a black ring is part of the swinging or polyamorous scene. Sometimes, someone might just like the way the ring looks or find it fits their right hand best.
“But that’s a little bit more inconspicuous because can you imagine if you went up to someone and you’re like, ‘Hey, I can see that black ring on your right hand’ and they are like, ‘Yeah, it’s just a black ring’.” she said.
