My mother-in-law has often alleged that I only became pregnant to marry her son. He is affluent and six years younger than I am. Just last week, she invited us to her 50th birthday party. During the party, she looked at my 7-year-old kid and told everyone, “Here’s my daughter-in-law and her lottery ticket!” Best presents for your loved ones.
My husband quickly stood up and exclaimed, “Yes!” “And you will never see them again.” He did not talk for the remainder of the supper. About an hour later, we heard my mother-in-law cry. We hurried over and found her in tears. Apparently, my husband had gone inside the house and removed every photo of us—including his own childhood photos—from their frames, leaving her a letter that read, “Don’t ever embarrass my family again!”
What was supposed to be a happy celebration for her milestone birthday turned into tragedy. Her son, whom she adores, had turned away from her in front of everyone. The guests discreetly left early, and I could see my husband’s fury still burning in his eyes as we drove home. I won’t lie—I was relieved and moved that he backed me so strongly. It felt like I’d “won.”
However, I see that his actions may have long-term consequences for him. Now I am torn. Should I be the one to reach out and attempt to repair the relationship? Is it preferable for us to move forward without someone who disrespects us?
